Tippy Toes and Tutus

IMG_4333This is a guide to help parents, students and teachers have  a successful first day of preschool dance.

Although it’s extremely hard to predict how any preschool dance class will be, here are a few things that I have found to turn first day of class chaos into success. I hope you find these tips helpful and can apply them to your own children and/or students.

Parents –

Prep, prep, prep! Your preschooler has no idea what to expect in a dance class when going for the first time. Most young children will be scared and nervous. How would you feel if you were going to a piloxing class for the first time, knew nothing about piloxing, knew no one there and had never met the instructor before? Piloxing is a non stop cardio fusion of standing pilates, kick boxing and dance. We all may have different feelings about trying new things, just like kids. All kids are different so one of these tips might work for your child while something different helps your child’s best friend.

1. Talk about dance every day. Go over what your child will do in class (Stretch, stand on a certain place, earn a stamp or sticker at the end of class if they follow directions, etc.).

2. Make sure your child understands that they will enter the classroom without you (the parent). Assure them that you will be waiting for them right outside the classroom and watching from the window.

3. Find out teacher’s name before the first class so you can help your child practice saying it. Attend meet the teacher night if your dance studio has one or ask to meet the teacher on a day before the first day of class.

4. Arrive to class a few minutes early to explore the dance studio with your child and show them where you will be waiting.

5. Be patient with your child as you help them enter the class but don’t linger too long in doorway or classroom. Trust that the teacher will comfort child if he or she starts crying.

6. After class, talk about everything that your child did and get them excited for the next dance day!

Give your child at least 6 weeks of trying a class before deciding if they are ready for dance. If after 6 weeks, they are still crying and have shown no progress, speak with teacher and see what they suggest. Your child may need to wait and try again when they are 6 months older.

Teachers –

Be prepared to quickly make changes to your lesson plan if a problem arrives.  Have go to tricks in your back pocket. You will never be able to predict how a 2 year old dance class will result. I love teaching 2 year olds because I see them progress so much throughout the year. They may come in the first day crying and not dancing at all but 9 months later, they are dancing on stage at recital. It takes a lot of patience but all worth it in the end.

This past week was my first week of classes for the season and I had two totally different 2 year old classes on the same day. The morning class was very loud and chaotic. 4 out of 10 girls cried and did not want to participate. We tried singing “If your happy and you know it” at beginning of class, praying and clapping our hands. After trying to get class started, I decided to let parents come in to dance with us. This still did not get the 4 upset girls to participate very much but the other 6 danced just fine with parents and other students crying in the room. We took a cute picture at the end of class and we will try again next week. My second 2 year old class had no one crying in it, everyone came in just fine and sat down. We talked about earning a stamp at the end of class and prayed together before starting class. They loved holding hands and dancing in a circle. When it was time to stand on our stickers in the center, two of the cutest little girls decided they wanted to do their own thing and wander around the room having my assistant chase them. I will take running around any day over crying. I assured the mom that they are only 2 and will continue to learn proper behavior in dance class. No matter what crazy things may go on in a preschool classroom, I’m happy to use patience and try to figure out new ways to help children learn and feel comfortable with the experience. Here are some first day of dance tips.

1. Arrive 15-30 minutes early to greet and talk with new students before class. This will help them feel more comfortable entering the classroom with you. Learn their names before class even starts to help you quickly grab their attention throughout class.

2. At the beginning of class, go over your expectations for the class, call backs for when students are not listening and rewards for end of class if student participates.

3. Ask each child by name a fun question about themselves. Favorite snack, restaurant, ice cream, color, toy or vegetable are some I’ve used in the past. This is a great way to practice memorizing their names.

4. Pray with your students before class each week. I like having a Bible verse for the month to go over as well with my students.

5. Take a first day of class picture at the end of class. This will be a fun memory to give out at the end of the year and for you to look back on as students may change throughout the year.

6. Talk about what they will be learning next week before sending them out of the classroom. Get them excited to come back!

7. Parents enjoy having something to practice with at home with child. Talk about things you taught in class with parents in waiting area after dance and/or send an email with a video and dance steps to practice with at home.

Let me know if you have any tips of your own that I can add to my list! Happy Dancing!

 

 

 

Oh the Places I Have Gone…

 

Although it is already March of 2016 (my birth month by the way), I want to look back on the places I travelled to in 2015. Near the end of the summer, my friends and family were beginning to call me a gypsy because I was always on the go and visiting a different place.

January

I began 2015 in Texas which wasn’t my home yet, I was just here for a visit with the Beck family. I ended the month with a cruise to the Bahamas with my friend Lisa. It was my 5th cruise and Lisa’s 1st. We sailed out of Jacksonville, Fl to Nassau and Freeport. This was my first cruise without my parents. While in Nassau, I swam with Dolphins for the first time! Swimming with Dolphins should be on everyone’s bucket list. It was an experience I will never forget.

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March

The only traveling in March I did was going to Disney World in Orlando with my friend Madison. She is truly my Disney friend. I can see us as 60 year olds going to Disney together. Our Disney trips are always entertaining. We started the trip by going to see the new Cinderella movie at the theater in Downtown Disney. After being in traffic for what seemed like hours, we found our seats with only 30 seconds to spare. We wanted to cry because we thought we would be late. One of the highlights from our trip was meeting two older ladies (they were best friends) at one of the Disney bus stops who showed us what they pack in their “emergency Disney bags.” They were just walking around the park for the day. They said it was doctors orders. After spending a few days at Disney, we went down to Seawalls Point, Fl to visit Madison’s dad. While attempting to paddle board at the beach or should I say get the paddle board in the water, the board decided to attack me and now I have a forever dent in my right upper leg. Our trip will now never be forgotten.

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June and July

For all of June and the first half of July, I was in Texas helping out with Chloe (I’m like an older sister to her) and spending time with the Beck family. This is when God started speaking to me about moving here. The end of July, I flew from Houston to North Carolina to meet up with friends from dance. From North Carolina, we drove to Ocean City, Maryland for a dance workshop. One of my dance students were invited to attend and I wanted to go support her.

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August

This is the month that I traveled to the most places. I began by driving to Virginia to visit a sweet family and close friend of mine that had recently moved there. I rode with them to New Jersey for a dance competition. A few of the Life Moves Competition dances were invited to the World Dance Championship. While in New Jersey, we took a bus into New York City and spent an afternoon sight seeing. I could see the city from my hotel window in New Jersey. One night at my hotel in the lobby, somehow I ended up winning an unplanned plank contest. I held a plank for 24 minutes and won a cash prize. I went back to Virginia from New Jersey and spent one more night with my sweet friends. The next day, I drove to Cleaveland, TN to visit with my aunt, uncle and cousins. While in TN, I drove to Clarksville and stayed a night with the Fox family and I stopped by to see one other family who I babysat for in GA. After, I drove back to my Aunt’s house for a couple more nights then I drove to Belmont, North Carolina to visit the McCotter family who I also babysat in GA. This is when I was beginning to be called a gypsy. I was just going house to house and spending a couple days at each place.

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September

This is the month I moved to Texas. I drove half way and stopped in Mississippi and stayed with a long time friend who I call my cousin. I arrived in Texas on September 3.

October – November

I flew to Ga for my best friend’s wedding, my first train ride with my aunt Robyn and the end of the month I went on my 6th cruise with my family. Let me just say, train rides are very dangerous. Anyone and anything could get past security because there is no security.  One of the workers didn’t hesitate to ask a passenger for a piece of fried chicken when she smelled it. After she had her chicken, she asked if anyone else had food to share. We had a fun ride all the way from Savannah to Jacksonville. Driving would’ve been faster but we were making memories which was all that matters. My cruise was a Halloween cruise and lasted 8 days. We travelled to Grand Turk, St. Maarten, St. Kitts, and San Juan. It was my favorite cruise EVER!!! The Carnival Sunshine is the ship we were on and it had awesome slides, a rope course, and of course great food. The cruise director, Jaime Dee, was awesome and very friendly. The dancers were all great as well. Grand Turk is definitely my favorite port! You walk off the ship and you are at the beach. I met some very nice crew members as well. I try to stay in contact with some of them on facebook. Anytime you have questions about cruises, I’m a great person to contact. I flew back to my new home in Texas after the cruise.

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December

I flew home to Ga for Christmas and I enjoyed catching up with some friends and spending time with my family!

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I look forward to traveling to more new places in 2016!!!!

 

 

 

 

My Story

“Why exactly did you move to Texas?”, “Are you Chloe’s nanny?”, “How long are you staying in Texas?”, and “Will you be moving back to Ga?” – These are a few of the questions which I am often asked and I am sure many of you may be wondering the same things. With that being said, I’ve decided that my first post should be my story about moving to Texas and what I’m doing now that I’m here. In the future, my post will not be this long. Before reading my story, I hope you will take the time to listen to this song. I have made it the theme song for my story. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1TKAN-nAsu8

Let’s begin…

December 2008, I began babysitting Chloe in Ga. Sheri, her mom, was at the local park one day and asked a mom there if she knew a good babysitter. The other mom recommended me to her. Sheri wondered if it was the same Ashlynn that taught Chloe dance and volunteered at her preschool. Sure enough I was. I babysat Chloe very often and it didn’t take long for me to start thinking of her as a little sister. The day came for Chloe and her parents to move in Jan 2011. I was in tears saying goodbye to them but I promised to visit.

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In March 2011, only two months after they had moved, I came to Texas for a visit. I will never forget the first thing Chloe said to me, “Miss Ashlynn, I missed your smell.” After that first visit, I came to Texas every summer and Christmas break. One summer was different than the others it was in 2013. I felt in my heart that I was supposed to move to Texas but I wasn’t clear as to when. I began praying about it right away. I cried when it was time to leave Texas and I felt like I was leaving my heart there. I spoke to my parents about it as soon as I was back home after my trip. My mom told me God had prepared her heart and she felt like I was going to tell her something like that. I continued praying for God to reveal to me when I would move to Texas.

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A couple years passed and in the summer of 2015, just this past year, I was in Texas and felt God speaking to my heart about moving here and needing a change in my life. My visit was nearing an end and I dreaded leaving. I began praying right away that God would reveal to me His plan and lead me in the right direction. This is cheesy but we got Chinese food one of the last nights I was in Texas and my fortune in my cookie said, “Don’t be afraid to take that big step.” The first Sunday I was back in Ga, the message at my church really spoke to my heart.  It was about how God has a story for each of us and sometimes we start writing our own story but it needs to be changed to fit God’s story for us. I felt like God was speaking to me through this message that it was time for a change in my own life.

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After talking with my family and other adults that I look up to, I decided to take this leap of faith and move to Texas. I knew I could easily move back to Ga and live with my family if it didn’t work out. I said my goodbyes and packed up my car. One thing I later realized is that God had this planned all along. I was going to drive my car to Texas in the summer but my car started acting weird and wasn’t reliable. I go back home and my car is perfectly fine. God knew that I would be driving it to Texas in September so He didn’t want me making the trip twice. Thanks heavenly Father for looking out for me!

IMG_6497 The day I arrived in Texas. I surprised Chloe and she couldn’t believe I was actually here to stay.

Was I nervous about moving all by myself? YES! I was nervous/worried about many things and I was sad to leave my family and friends. Once I arrived in Texas, I set up an interview at a Christian Dance Studio where Chloe has danced for years and I’ve always wanted to work there. The director informed me that she could only offer me a sub position. I show up to the interview and she starts by telling me she has 5 classes for me to teach if the interview goes well. That was an answer to prayer because I was hoping to teach and not just sub. The first few weeks I was here, I also met many new people to start babysitting for. One thing after the other gave me peace about my decision to move here. I knew that God was looking out for me and I needed to just continue to trust Him.

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It is now February and I am still very happy about my decision. I live with Chloe and her family but no, I am not her Nanny. I am part of their family and I am very thankful for them! Chloe and I call each other sisters. Another question I often get asked is “Did you move because of a boy you met in Texas?” The answer to that is no. I currently teach 12 dance classes  weekly and some months I teach additional classes that are offered. I also teach pilates at the YMCA and I will soon start teaching dance there as well. My schedule stays busy with babysitting and pet sitting. I meet new people everyday that are looking for a sitter. I’m getting more connected in the church I attend here by being in a small group Bible study and I’m in the process of becoming a volunteer in the children’s ministry. I still am unclear as to what God’s future plan is for me in Texas, but I know He will use me for great things. I will continue to trust in Him daily! This is my new favorite song and I encourage you all to listen to it –https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qv-SXz_exKE

“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:34